Friday, August 28, 2009

Chinese Valentine 七夕

Raise your head on August 26th and gaze at the stars, you will find something romantic going on in the sky.
  VALENTINE'S Day in China, the seventh day of the seventh lunar month, falls on August 26th this year.
  That is, on today's evening, Niu Lang and Zhi Nu will meet on a bridge of magpies(鹊桥) across the Milky Way(银河). Chinese grannies will remind children that they would not be able to see any magpies on that evening because all the magpies have left to form a bridge in the heavens with their wings.

Romantic legend
  The legend has been handed down for nearly 2 millennia. The story has been recorded as far back as the Jin Dynasty (256-420 AD). Poets composed hundreds of verses on the love story and many types of Chinese opera tell the story.
  The Chinese people believe that the star Vega(织女星), east of the Milky Way, is Zhi Nu and, at the constellation of Aquila(天鹰座), on the western side of the Milky Way, Niu Lang waits for his wife.
  Zhi Nu was said to be the youngest of seven daughters of the Queen of Heaven. With her sisters, she worked hard to weave beautiful clouds in the sky, while Niu Lang was a poor orphan cowherd, driven out of his home by his elder brother and his cruel wife.
  Niu Lang lamented over his lonely and poor life with an old cow, his only friend and companion. The magical cow kindly told him of a way to find a beautiful and nice woman as his life companion.
  Under the direction of the cow, Niu Lang went to the riverside on an evening, where the seven fairies slipped out of their heavenly palace to bathe.
  He took one of the beautiful silk dresses the fairies had left on the bank. When the fairies left the water, the youngest couldn''t find her clothes and had to see her sisters fly back to heaven without her.
  Then Niu Lang came out with the dress and asked the youngest fairy, Zhi Nu, to stay with him.
  Several years passed on Earth, which were only a few days in heaven. Niu Lang and Zhi Nu lived happily together and had two children before the Queen of Heaven discovered Zhi Nu''s absence.
  She was so annoyed she had Zhi Nu brought back to heaven. Seeing his beloved wife flying in the sky, Niu Lang was terrified. He caught sight of the cowhide hanging on a wall. The magical cow had told him before dying of old age: "Keep the cowhide(牛皮) for emergency use."
  Putting the cowhide on, he went after his wife with his two children.
  With the help of the cowhide, Niu Lang was able to follow Zhi Nu into heaven. He was about to reach his wife when the Queen showed up and pulled off her ha
Zirpin to draw a line between the two. The line became the Silver River in heaven, or the Milky Way. Zhi Nu went back to the heavenly workshop, going on weaving the clouds. But she was so sad, and missed her husband across the Silver River so much that the clouds she weaved seemed sad. Finally, the Queen showed a little mercy, allowing the couple to meet once every year on the Silver River.
Chinese ceremonies
  The seventh day of the seventh lunar month is the only Chinese festival devoted to love in the Lunar calendar.
  Unlike St. Valentine''s Day in Western countries there is not so much emphasis on giving chocolates, flowers and kisses. Instead, Chinese girls prepare fruits, melons and incense(熏香) as offerings to Zhi Nu, the weaving maiden, praying to acquire high skills in needlecraft(裁缝), as well as hoping to find satisfactory husbands.
  In the evening, people sit outdoors to observe the stars. Chinese grannies would say that, if you stand under a grapevine, you can probably overhear what Zhi Nu and Niu Lang are talking about.

Tuesday, August 25, 2009

A Sweet Letter from Elder Li

Elder Li in front of the Seattle Temple

Dear family and friends,

I had a joyful day on Sunday. Two weeks ago, we put our eternal investigator Chris Foster on date for Baptism. He was baptized on Sunday by his Brother-in-law. Chris Foster is Part Member Family. His wife Eva is a return missionary from the Philippines. Eva has 4 brothers and 3 sisters who all served missions. They are all faithful members. The family and the ward have been working on Chris for 8 years, ever since they were married. Chris has been coming to church with his wife and 2 kids for 8 years. The missionaries started teaching him 3 years ago. I have been teaching him for 7 months, ever since I came to the area.


He has struggles recognizing the spirit, does not have much faith to believe the spirit. He wants to feel something big...We had many many great lessons. The spirit always fills the room. Eva is always in tear during the lesson. Chris just would not commit to it. I knew he would get what he expects because he has the desire, and he keeps all the commandments.


We fasted for him many times, but nothing happened. However, two weeks ago, it changed. We had a lesson on Temple marriage and Eternal family. I bore my testimony to him. I had never felt the spirit that strong. I was led by the spirit and said to him" Chris, I know and Heavenly Father knows you are ready. The transfer is in two weeks. I will not leave the area until I witness you get baptized. I want to see you, Eva and the kids being sealed in the temple a year from now, before I return home. Will you be baptized? "


Eva was in tear like always, even the 2-year-old kids became silent. The spirit was like fire burning, even Chris could not deny it. He said to me" Elder Li, you made the change. I got all the answers I need tonight. I felt what I have been expecting. I will be baptized before the transfer." I set a date with him: August 23rd.


It is a joy to witness him being baptized by his family member. I will have the opportunity to go to the temple with them in a year. I am so looking forward to it. In 2 years, he will be able to baptize his 6-year-old daughter. It is a joy to see his family united in the gospel. I am grateful.

I love you and miss you all. I appreciate for all your prayers. I have felt them.

With Love, Elder Li
I don't know about you, but I couldn't stop my tears when I read his story. He's become such a great spiritual person! Words cannot describe how proud I am as his sister! He amazes me over and over again. Because of him, I have a stronger testimony. Because of him, I know the Gospel is true. I know it can change people's lives for good! I love my family! I love my brother!

~~Rooster~~

Back in July when we went to that Taste of Utah Valley Festival, we discovered a new Chinese (Asian) restaurant called Rooster. Their Thai Basil Rice won my heart at the festival. So for our anniversary dinner, we decided to try it out.
It didn't disappoint us. It's a little on the pricy side, but it's just right for special occasions. We sat outside for the main course, and then it started raining so we had to move inside for the dessert. What with us and the rain this year?! John said it's a good sign; that means we are very fertile :-) Silly John~~
John's Ginger chicken stir-fry. Isn't that a cute bowl?
My Thai Basil Rice

Anyway, the best part for me was the drink: Taro flavored Boba Smoothie.
Boba balls are made from a mixture of tapioca and carrageenan powder.

When we were in China, my favorite drink was Boba Tea, which in Chinese translated as Pearl Milk Tea. It has different flavors and my favorite is MoCha (green tea).

Then comes John's favorite part of the meal: dessert! We had Chocolate Lava Cake with cream! Yum~~
Please ignore the hairy arm of my husband~~Happy Anniversary~~

Monday, August 24, 2009

2 years down, an eternity to go~~

Butterfly Lake

Today (August 24th) is our two years' anniversary. I can't believe we already left two years behind us. I can still see the day when we got engaged! Time flies. It's been two amazing years! I love John and I'm so grateful that he feels the same way about me~~

For celebration, we went to Mirror Lake for a camping trip. We envisioned a beautiful, quiet camp ground with only us and the deer. However, when we drove in the camp ground, we found the opposite, only people, no deer! Someday we're gonna make it to Max and Deanna's cabin in the wilderness in Alaska where there're only bears!

So we drove down a little and found Butterfly Lake. Luckily it was a lot more private. Even though we could still hear our neighbor's dog, it's not like Cancun any more.

We spent the afternoon there exploring the woods. John chopped us firewood (with rocks). We walked around the lake and talked about our future. When the sun went down, John made campfire and we ate hotdogs and smores.

So it rained on us at 4am. We had to get up and put the rainfly on. It was fun though.

I love my life and I wouldn't want it any other way.

Neil is here~~

Neil landed in Las Vagas on the 19th of August. Neil is my cousin Megan's boy friend. They've been dating for at least 5 years, which is very common in China. My in-laws were kind enough to pick him up from Vegas and bring him up the next day. He's going to Selnate, a private language school to study English to get ready for BYU Business school.

We've had some time showing him around Provo. It happens to be our anniversary weekend, so we haven't had time to do much with him yet.

We went to Jamba Juice, where Megan started her first job EVER. John had a coupon from a research study he participated in. So he decided to use his money to add the grass drink he's been so curious about. It turns out, they don't blend it in your drink. They give you a separate shot of pure wheat grass drink. It's so strong that you have to drink another shot of orange juice to get over the taste~~ Anyway it was fun!
John's 2 dollar grass drink~~

@Macaroni Grill

We went to the Hinckley Visitor Center

On top of the JFSB

We went to IKEA to get Neil set up for his new apt

John's must-eat @ IKEA: Swedish meat balls

Neil's been having a hard time adjusting to American soil. He's had nose bleeding and fever for three days.As Chinese as my food can be, but I'm sure he misses REAL Chinese food. Poor guy. Hopefully he'll soon get over the fact that you can't just go on the street, spend a quarter, and get some GOOD Chinese any more~~



Monday, August 17, 2009

~~A Beautiful Sunday~~

This time last year, we were sweating like pigs in Shanghai, a city with a 100% humidity! That was not fun. So we're especially grateful for the beautiful weather lately! I can't believe I had to wear long-sleeves at night in the middle of August!! Love it~~

This Sunday, Megan came over for her missionary discussion as usual. We had dinner and a lesson on Testimony. John shared his testimony about how important it was to have a testimony. He's great!

Then we decided to have a walk around the beautiful BYU campus. We had some fun taking pictures under the big BYU Bell. That's where I had my graduation pictures taken in 2006. Good memories~~
Me and my parents in 2006~~








Wednesday, August 12, 2009

Fighting, Megan~~

Megan took the GMAT on Monday. BYU business school requires 680, and she got 630 :-( She has to take it again in a month. She's pretty disappointment. I felt bad for her but didn't know what to do other than giving her encouragement. Maybe I'll study the GMAT and figure out some strategies to help her. I wish she's taking the TOEFL.

Anyway, John and I decided to take her for some icecream and get her mind off the test for a while. So we went to Cold Stone. She seemed to like it.

In order to work off our calories, John and I walked to the cougar statue outside the stadium and had fun playing with the cougar.

They just put a new bench outside our window for the bus stop. My hot hubby :-)
I hope Megan will feel better soon and ace the test next time :-) I know she will! Fighting~~